To be that self which one truly is, is indeed the opposite of despair.
- Soren Kierkegaard
I read Kierkegaard’s [pronounced keer-ker-guard] words yesterday, and they were water to my soul. Not sure why I was so impacted, but it served as a great reminder that the person I see in the mirror, somehow, is “God’s enough”…Flaws and all.
It’s almost as if Kierkegaard were saying, we’re healthiest when we show up to life’s party dressed as ourselves. If not, we’ll eventually be disappointed from the ill-fitting costumes and false selves we tend to wear.
One question I’ve been wrestling with is, “Why is it so difficult to be our God-given selves?” In a world of “total makeovers” and continual reinvention, it takes a lot of courage to come to the party dressed as ourselves.
Perhaps a first step is to trust God’s love for us as it’s expressed through others. In other words surrounding ourselves with people who accept, love, and affirm who we really are – as a gift from heaven.
So this is my prayer for us today:
Christ of our bodies and souls,
Send us friends,
Who would help us to see ourselves through You.
Amen.